In the eyes of society, marriage is becoming less and less important as the years progress. There are fewer marriages and an increase in the amount of divorce rates. A healthy family dynamic does more than just benefit a child’s development, it also creates a strong community development. In an article, titled State of Our Unions 2012, the importance of marriage is addressed. The quote reads, “Marriage is not merely a private arrangement; it is also a complex social institution. Marriage fosters small cooperative unions—also known as stable families—that enable children to thrive, shore up communities, and help family members to succeed during good times and to weather the bad times.” Marriage fosters growth and development in the lives of children and the success of a community.
Wedding rings are a symbolism of marriage. They are not to be worn only on the day of marriage, but for the entirety of the marriage. The ring, in the form of a circle, represents eternity and endless love. It is a way of showing the commitment between a husband and his spouse. The wedding ring is a commitment and a declaration, as should be marriage. A man and woman in marriage should always strive to commit themselves to one another and prioritize their sacred relationship. There may be some circumstances that warrant the need for divorce, but in most cases, divorce occurs when a man and woman are not fully committing themselves to one another. I have seen couples forgo divorce and committed themselves to working out their issues. Because they put in the necessary effort they became happier, more satisfied individuals that kept their marriage alive.
In the article, Divorce, by Dallin H. Oaks, he says “A good marriage does not require a perfect man or a perfect woman. It only requires a man and a woman committed to strive together toward perfection.” No marriage will ever be perfect. And no marriage will ever not require work.; It takes time and effort constantly. But as we strive to work on improving our relationships, we can build a stronger marriage, increase the love within our homes with our children, and build an overall better society as we refocus on the important things of life.
For Eternity 